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2012/04/13

Acquired Tastes, Chapter XVII : Rimming

So, I have put off  writing this particular Acquired Tastes entry for well over a year.  Why?  I think it’s because it has to do with mouth on butt stuff.  Am I squeamish?  Or a hypocrite?  The answer: I’m both.  This topic makes me uncomfortable.  I could blame it on that idiot Ugandan religious figure that gives ‘talks’ about what homosexuals do with one another and why they should be put to death for it.  I saw the video on Instinct – a great site for gay news.  Here’s a link: http://instinctmagazine.com/index.php  Anyway, this pastor/reverend ignoramus seems obsessed with the idea that one gay man puts his mouth on the rectum of another gay man so he can eat “the poo-poo”.  And, yes, that is pretty much a direct quote (especially “the poo-poo” part). 

Okay, so scat is something some dudes are into – straight and gay – but that is not what rimming is about (or being gay, for that matter).  Or at least not what it is supposed to be about.  Yes, there are those microscopic concerns when it comes to this particular activity and that is the main reason why I am so squeamish when it comes to writing about(although, not performing)…

Rimming

Scope of Activity:

Yes, one gay man puts his mouth on the rectum of another – but no ‘poo-poo’ is to be involved.  Rather this is done for the sake of sexual arousal.  So we ain’t talking scat, Uganda. 

Anyway, lots of tongue-play, lots of saliva.  This is the gay male version of cunnilingus. 

The Official Line:

With information from Wikipedia:

Anilingus (from anus + lingus (Latin Lingere: to lick), also spelled analingus, also referred to or described as anal–oral contact or anal–oral sex, is a form of oral sex involving contact between the anus or perineum of one person and the mouth (lips) or tongue of another. Slang terms frequently used are rimming or rim-job. Anilingus can be performed by people of all sexual orientations and, depending upon the context in which it is performed, it may be used for personal pleasure or as a form of erotic humiliation.

Anilingus involves a variety of techniques to stimulate the anus including kissing, licking, and sliding the tongue up and down the insides of the cheeks and crack of the buttocks, and in and out of the anus itself. Pleasure for the giver is usually based more on the principle of the act.  Mutual anilingus can also be done in the position called 69.

Psychological Aspects:

Hmmm.  What makes someone eat out the butt of another (in this case we’ll just address dude on dude.  The Wikipedia entry makes reference to “erotic humiliation”, and while talking about man-on-man mouth-on-hole action make be a tad embarrassing for some, the actual act usually takes place with a real sense of purpose and drive.  In other words, dudes that eat ass really love to eat ass.  It’s primal.  It’s dirty fucking sex at its wildest. 

Psychologically what drives a man to eat another man’s hole?  Got me.  I’ve done it, and gotten into it.  Usually as a bit of foreplay before fucking that same hole.  I can’t imagine rimming as a lone act, but there are probably dudes out there for whom that is their only ticket into heaven.   What that’s about?  Probably the same thing as hetro men who only want to eat pussy all the time.  Which, given the flavor, I will stick with the butt, Bob.

My Experience:

So, what is the big deal with rimming?  Why does it make me squirm in my seat and put off addressing in this blog.  Well, there are many health problems that can result from practicing anilingus, because of the presence of bacteria, viruses or parasites on or in the anus or rectum. These include hepatitis A, B, & C, intestinal parasites, chlamydia infection, poliomyelitis, human papillomavirus (HPV), gonorrhea, herpes simplex virus, conjunctivitis, and other sexually transmitted diseases. That said, the HIV virus is not believed to be easily transmitted via rimming.

Makes me never want to engage it again.  But, when the opportunity arises, while I am more likely to say no, it still happens on occasion.  The number of dudes who do it to me far outnumber those that I have done it to.

I do liken it to eating pussy – something that I have actually done (and didn’t care for).  There is that animal energy that takes over – that same energy that finds you doing all sorts of nasty things you would never consider doing unless your clothes are off and you are in the midst of some hot man-to-man fun with some hot man. 

Being on the receiving end is a lot easier to take.  Granted, I have suffered numerous sessions where the dude back there hadn’t a clue of what to do, and I have also had instances where the dude to it to a point of extreme – where it ended up feeling like a cat’s tongue working my hole.  But on occasion I have been privileged to find my hole worked over by a true artist.  It’s rare, but it does happen.  So, even though it is not my favorite thing in the world, I will submit, give a dude a chance – if for no other reason than that it is something they want to do, something they like, and as a GGG sexual partner, I feel I need to give my blessing and let them have at it.  Hey, if it gets them off, it’s good.

Other than the dude at the warehouse who rimmed my hole for twenty plus minutes while I was sucking on this other dude, I really can’t recall a specific instance where rimming was memorable.  And the only reason that was memorable is, not due to his skill level, but due to the length of time involved and the fact that by the end of it his tongue felt like sandpaper on my poor hole.

Do I think I am a great rimmer?  No.  I will give it my all for a short time period, but, because it holds so little interest to me, it is really just a speed bump on the way to fucking that hole.  That said, while I engage in it, I am fully committed – but if you think I’m going to spend more than five minutes eating your ass, you got another thing coming (so to speak).

I have often wondered if I would feel differently about rimming if it weren’t for the parasites – parasites which I have at one time in my life been treated for.  Whether that was because of some food handler who failed to wash his hands or all that ass eating I have done – I can’t say (let’s blame that food handler, okay, doc?). 

I have read that dental dams are a possible solution – do they sell those at Walgreen’s?  But that feels and sounds a lot less sexy than condoms.  And I have yet to find anyone that would warm to the idea of using cling wrap on their hole.  So I guess that means that rimming will probably remain on my personal ‘no fly zone’.

My Conclusion:

Yay.  I wrote about rimming. 

Yay.  I’m done writing about rimming.

My apologies to all you rimming enthusiasts.  You deserve much better.  Hey, check the internet.  I am sure there are tons of sites dedicated to this.  There may even be a blog written by a butt munching enthusiast... somewhere.  

1 comment:

FelchingPisser said...

Uh-oh...here I am reading old columns...

Now I consider myself a rimming master. I may be that blog writer/butt munching enthusiast. NowiIf I were to eat your ass, you'd remember it. Drive, depth, spit and desire.

You need to sit on my rimseat.

Now, would be good....