Warning... this is an adult site. If reading or viewing things about what gay men do sexually with one another bothers you - you should not read this blog. This blog is a reflection of my adventures and thoughts. Some are fun, some not so pretty. I won't name names, or kiss and tell... but I will live to tell. And baby, trust me - I am gonna spill it all over your pretty little party dress. Enjoy!
Keep your heads up, my dears, your hearts open, and your eyes on the prize. In this new age, the possibilities are endless, all you need do is have a positive mindset and a good work ethic.
Make 2026 a year of hope.
Make it a year of success - however you define it.
A year that will not be without its challenges... but a year that also holds much promise.
Let's all hope the world snaps to... it's way past time for a wake up call.
And... let's all do our part to make it a better world.
It's not difficult.
Try to operate from a place of kindness.
Ask more of yourself than you ask of others.
Keep you chin up and do your best to find the good in everything.
We don't know what the year holds in store for us...we never do. Best bet? Remain grateful. Even for the tiniest of moments. I've come to believe they're what make up a lifetime. No, they don't last long and you're a fool to try and hang on to them... but do recognize them, acknowledge them and treasure them.
Well, let's get on with it, shall we?
Out with the old...
And in with the new. Blah, blah, blah..
- uptonking from Wonderland Burlesque.
Get On With It
from the 1975 motion picture Monty Python And The Holy Grail
It's quite easy: you can list actual things/events you have to coming up, or what you hope will be taking place.
Ten questions and done. No muss, no fuss.
Think of this as a 'getting to know more about you' exercise.
Let's begin!
What's on your agenda...?
1/ This afternoon?
I will be working from home via my work laptop and working on my blog via my personal laptop. I will drop in on The Boyfriend to check on the cats and do a work out in his basement. Back home, I'm back on the laptops until 4:00 pm, at which time I cross the street to visit with my mother. We watch Judge Judy and I quiz her about her day, check to see what needs to be done around her house, and make sure she's eating something relatively healthy for dinner.
2/ Tonight?
It's my typical Monday-Thursday schedule: I feed the dog, then I start making my dinner while watching Lester Holt on NBC News. After I eat and listen to the local weather, I go back down into my bat cave to play piano. An hour later, I am working on this blog and checking into work to take care of any remaining business or respond to new requests and questions. Then I read a bit before turning out the lights to try and sleep.
A tad boring. Very predictable. But it suits me these days.
3/ Tomorrow morning?
Coffee is the thing that motivates me out of bed. I must have it. Especially in winter. Coffee has always struck me as the height of adult activity. And since I like to think of myself as an adult, I make a point of having at least two cups right out the gate. But only two. More, and I become a bit of a prickly pear.
Work begins at 5:30 am. Wednesdays tend to be my quiet day. I get a lot done on the blog and typically catch up with all the blogs I follow, leaving comments. It's become important to me, to remain social (in a way) and part of a community.
Plain oatmeal with a handful of raisins thrown in. Love it. If I'm not in the mood, I'll simply have a protein drink.
And then I write. Tap, tap, tap.
4/ Next week?
Probably won't be any different than my regular winter schedule. I go over to The Boyfriend's house on Friday afternoon and start cleaning. And stay with him until Sunday evening. Love my time there.
I don't have any appointments next week or special errands. I like uneventful weeks best. Anything out of the norm? Ruffles my feathers. And I'm a bit of a Henny Penny on a good day, so best keep things on an even keel as much as possible.
Boring? Perhaps. But I'm merely biding my time until summer. Until then...
Don't rock the boat.
The boat's got enough to deal with, as is.
5/ Next month?
Another birthday. Oh, dear. Is that possible? I'm determined to ignore them as much as I'm able. That number? It has no significance.
I am ageless and evergreen... ain't that right, Babs?
I plan on asking of myself and my body the same things I have come to ask... work out, eat well, limit toxins, everything in moderation. Remain flexible: mind and body.
And, please, do try to keep a positive outlook, dear.
Nobody likes a gloomy Gus.
(Though I hear he gives great head... just saying!)
Oh. And... Covid-19 willing - I will be spending five nights in Cancun at a ritzy all-inclusive, thanks to my youngest sister. The sister who is a year younger than I will also be going. It's a trip we've been planning - to celebrate our birthdays, but, due to Covid-19, keeps getting pushed out. Well, we're hoping February will be a nice clean month and worry-free.
One can dream, can't one?
6/ In six months?
I will be parked beneath my favorite oak tree as naked as my surroundings allow, I will take occasional strolls around the perimeter to check what is what, although, these days, all the action is down by the lake.
Summer. I am in my element. I'm like a pesky, unattractive butterfly flitting from flower to flower.
No one pays me much attention, so I get to drink it all in like the glutton I am.
It's far too early to begin pining and white knuckling my way to the season, so, I've said enough.
Just know that my tan will be spectacular!
7/ Next Year?
I have no idea.
It all depends on Covid-19 and what my work will allow.
Honestly, I can't imagine another year of hiding out in the bat cave. Or can I?
It needs a deep clean. And that has to happen sooner than later.
It also needs a bit of renovation, something that would have been done by now, but every time I find a contractor/handy man I think up to the task, I end up getting foul reports about his work or work ethic, so I stall.
I will have one less rental house, fingers crossed. We've been selling gradually. The city of Minneapolis has made huge mistakes when it comes to rental properties. Their policies are driving out small businesses like my own, leaving the field to large, out of state, companies. Thing is, they don't care about their properties the way the smaller operators do. And eventually, it will all bite the city in the ass. They're creating future slag holes, right and left.
Well, they can have it. I have no intention of living out my life here.
8/ Five Years from now?
I will have paid off all The Ex's debt and have no mortgage.
I will retire.
I will travel. Big trip. Overseas. By that point it will be my third, as I plan on going to Europe again in 2023 or 2024. I also want to go to a gay clothing-optional resort. Or maybe a gay beach.
I don't know where I will be living, but it will be a huge transition. Very excited.
And that's it... that's as far as it goes.
I am open to whatever comes my way...
9/ What is your agenda?
It's the same one I adopted eight years ago:
I do my best to play piano, sing, and write music.
I do my best to write. This blog. Or whatever.
I would like to get to those boxes of old writing, but... I also wonder if that's a trap. Maybe new is better? Maybe the past should stay boxed?
I plan on being kinder to people. And myself!
And travel until I have no desire to do so.
Simple man, simple dreams.
10/ Do you have a hidden agenda? Spill!
I do. Only, it's not all that hidden, as I've started dialogues about it with others.
And it's really quite selfish.
I need my younger sisters to care for my mother.
Yes, I love my mother, but... I've done enough. It's time someone else take on the responsibility.
I did all I could for my dad. And I've continued to do so for my mother, but... I constantly wonder what my life might be like if she weren't there, needing all she needs?
It's not like I don't get to live my life as I wish, I realize that. However, she's getting to be a certain age and I'm tired (as is The Ex) of being the go-to person for everything.
Is that terrible of me? I love her, but... I need to be independent of her, again.
And, of course, if neither picks up the gauntlet? Well, then it will be on me to soldier on. Though I fear I'm not big enough a person not to let the unfairness of it color my world.
--- ---
And that's enough of me.
Your turn. You know what to do. Leave your answers in the comments section, or post to your blog and leave a link here.
