1/ Do you prefer to host or travel?
3/ What do you take note of when at another dude's place? Pet peeves?
My piano is right next to my bed. So... yeah, that. I hope that they see that although my place is not much, it is well-kept and I have interests and art on the walls and books. How is it so many mens have no books in they house? DVDs - sure... but how about a book?
5/ Best and/or worst/most embarrassing host experience, when at a dude's place?
I was invited to a mansion in this ritzy neighborhood. You know... one of those houses your eyes go all big over? Dude was older but sizzling hot. I walk in the entrance hall and there is this giant, beautiful staircase. Yeah. We did it right there, on that staircase.
6/ Weirdest place you or the other person suggested the two of you 'meet up'?
Church. A Catholic church. I followed through... and he was there, but chickened out. I get it. I don't believe anymore, but why mess with something that has nothing to do with you? Well, at the time, I was a church-goer. But... no, I guess that was pretty messed up, so just as well.
Oh. I was working on one of my rental houses. (I may have shared this story in the past, too) (notice how all my stories are 'in the past'? sigh). Summer. I have no shirt on. Just shorts. Working outside. This black dude is walking by and asks if the house is for rent. I tell him it will be, soon as all the work is done. He wants to see the place. I look him over. He's cute. Energetic. Has a bit of a sly dog quality. There's a vibe about him I dig.
8/ Have you ever hooked up with a guy and wished he would stay in your life forever? Tell me about him. Has a random hook-up ever turn into something more?
I have not. Though I heated up some leftover Hamburger Helper once for a dude I thought was in need of a meal. But breakfast. Naw. That relationship stuff.